Are we moving to Splitsville?
He and I are on a break.
because he’s a douchebag boyfriend who would rather cancel night plans with his girlfriend on their anniversary and instead go out to dinner with his female friends who he just HASN’T seen in SUCH a long time ( girl1 he saw three weeks ago, girl2 he talks to constantly on aim/phone and was at his house a week earlier, and girl3 he works with….. seriously) and then go out clubbing with them to another girl’s birthday party… who he made out with once and tried to get with.
wtF?
And I’m the one feeling like I’m the bad guy in the relationship. I’ve done some pretty shady and emotionally insecure/unstable things to this guy, but Jesus this is the second time he has done this ( refer to previous post).
I as a person deserve better than this. No amount of dinners, flowers, nights out on the town, can compare to how… secondary he makes me feel. I understand that he has a lot of friends and that he’s a popular guy, but he can’t constantly put me on the backburner when it’s convenient for him to do so.
And let me reiterate… I’m the one that feels like I’m the bad guy. That I’m the one who has done the terrible job and that I hope and pray he’ll call and take me back. But the good Lord and I both know that Loverboy is gonna go do me wrong again. How do you know that you ask? Well because the first time he did this to me, I talked to him about it and we were ok. Then he does it to me a week later. wtF? Kid needs to learn how to listen. He’s in a relationship with another human being he has to learn how to be considerate. Or even yet… practice common courtesy. When you have plans with Party A…. DO NOT make plans with Party B. Or have the audacity to cancel plans with Party A ( on your effing anniversary) to hang out and club with Party B.
I’m not asking for a lot. Just fucking to think ahead and realize… “Oh shit.. maybe just maybe, I shouldn’t try to cancel plans with my girlfriend we made them about three days ago. Maybe I should spend quality time with her. Yeah maybe I should do that.”
Asshole.
Seriously.
